Sabine Schoepke
Pick Joy
A NEW DECISION FILTER FOR WOMEN WHOSE LIVES LOOK SUCCESSFUL — BUT DON’T FEEL THE WAY THEY THOUGHT IT WOULD.
YOU’VE DONE WHAT WORKS.YOU’VE DONE WHAT’S EXPECTED.YOU’VE DONE WHAT ONCE MADE SENSE.
AND NOW YOU’RE TIRED — NOT BECAUSE YOU FAILED, BUT BECAUSE THE RULES YOU’VE BEEN LIVING BY ARE OUTDATED.
PICK JOY HELPS YOU CHOOSE DIFFERENTLY — WITHOUT
BURNING EVERYTHING DOWN.
WHAT IF THE PROBLEM ISN’T YOUR LIFE…BUT HOW YOU’VE BEEN CHOOSING IT?
You’re capable. Smart. Responsible. From the outside, everything works.
But inside?
You feel disconnected. Overextended. Quietly wondering if this is it.
You don’t need a reinvention. You need a new way to decide.
PICK JOY IS NOT ABOUT FORCING HAPPINESS.
IT’S A PRACTICAL PHILOSOPHY FOR DECISION-MAKING IN MIDLIFE.
PICK JOY HELPS YOU RECOGNISE WHEN CHOICES ARE COMING FROM:
Guilt
Fear
Obligation
Outdated survival rules
…and teaches you how to choose from clarity, self-trust, and relief instead.
Not bigger moves.
Not harder pushes.
Smaller, truer choices — made consistently.
ABOUT
Sabine
Sabine Schoepke is the creator of the Pick Joy philosophy.
Her work helps accomplished women stop abandoning themselves in the name of being “good,” “strong,” or “responsible” — and start choosing in ways that actually support who they are now.
She teaches Pick Joy through writing, podcasting, keynotes, and experiential workshops designed to bring people back into alignment with themselves.
The Book
A practical, compassionate guide to choosing yourself again — without guilt, burnout, or blowing up your life.
Workshops
Experiential resets that help individuals and groups move out of survival mode and into clarity, connection, and relief.
Workshops
Experiential resets that help individuals and groups move out of survival mode and into clarity, connection, and relief.
Keynotes
For organizations and leaders who understand that regulated people make better decisions, build better cultures, and sustain success longer.
Pick Joy
LIVES IN MULTIPLE FORMS:
Keynotes
For organizations and leaders who understand that regulated people make better decisions, build better cultures, and sustain success longer.
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. YOU DIDN’T LOSE YOUR WAY — YOU OUTGREW THE DECISIONS THAT ONCE KEPT YOU SAFE.
Pick Joy isn’t about changing your life overnight.
It’s about making the next choice from a place that actually feels like you.
KIND WORDS
“Life changing is a bold statement. But in my case working with Sabine over the last six months has been life changing. Sabine has the most extraordinary understanding and intuition that allows her to take a bird’s eye view of situations and see the root issues.”
James Godfrey-Faussett, Founder, Healing Earth Project
“Sabine is a coach that creates an environment for you as the client to thrive in. Her energy is contagious and her willingness to help you along your journey is second to none. If you are looking for someone to take to the next level and live that POWERLIFE well Sabine is your go to!!”
Trevor M.
“I am thrilled to recommend Sabine, an extraordinary transformative mindset coach whose guidance has been pivotal in both my personal and professional growth. Working with Sabine has been a game-changer; her ability to bring clarity to my goals has been nothing short of transformative.”
Roderick Cabahug
“Sabine uses her life experiences to coach others to revamp stuck mindsets and empower themselves to create a life they love. She’s a bada$$ with heart!”
Susie Schaefer
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